<![CDATA[Kitchen Psycho - Meditations]]>Sun, 17 Jan 2016 05:53:00 -0800Weebly<![CDATA[Where Have Our Food Morals Gone?]]>Wed, 24 Jul 2013 13:20:11 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/where-have-our-food-morals-gonePicture
"Even if its processed and 'poison', I'm still gonna try it!!!"

    Have you ever said this before?? I hope not. Yet there are folks out there who insist on eating foods that are bad for them, no matter the cost. You name the reason, and they will use it: 

-- "I can eat what I want. It's a free country."
-- "I just don't have the time. I'm a busy mother, and it's enough to just get food on the table."
-- "I'm sick of the food police trying to tell me what to eat!"
-- "You only live once!"

    Recently on Facebook, one page administrator posted the recipe of a contributor. All three ingredients in the recipe were processed and contained several harmful additives. Here was my initial comment: 

    "I'm sorry, but with a name like "FBPageName", I expect stuff on this page to me homemade. This stuff might be a favorite, but it's definitely not homemade. Cool Whip contains some pretty bad stuff. I'm not putting you down, it's just that so many people are obese and unhealthy in this country, and we will not get better until we change our relationships with processed, "convenient" food. It starts one meal at a time, in each home. I understand that everybody wants the occasional treat, but even those can be made with whole ingredients! :) "

    My comment was met with numerous rude and dismissing replies, including one who made this excuse: "I'm not overweight. I can eat what I want." These people wanted me to leave the page and leave them to their devices. I couldn't help myself: I gave one last comment and left it at this: 
    "Sorry folks, but if you have a business that sells chicken and waffles, and you're famous for it, then hardly anyone will come for anything else. Same goes with having a website or FB page. We have a responsibility to be true to our customers/readers. (By the way, you don't have to be fat to be unhealthy) I am obviously in the minority here, but I also feel offended. (but what do you folks care?). I was not rude or putting anyone down, as I mentioned in my first comment. And yet, because I disagreed with the post, you folks want to tell me I'm not welcome here? Do we not all have the constitutional right to disagree? And shall we not politely hold up a mirror to each other so we see how we appear to others? Sometimes we need a little constructive criticism to make progress. Why is it so bad to eat good food? You're right, I could just move on and unlike this page. But why? I like it!"

    Maybe I shouldn't have said all that. But seriously, why is it so bad to eat good food??

    Here is YET another problem with the way we eat: OUR ATTITUDE. Is our pride getting in our way? My answer is unequivocal: Yes. We are a prideful people. We can eat the way we want, because dang it, this is a free country. Well, guess what? We have eaten our way to the worst numbers of obesity, heart disease and cancer in all of history. And how do you think we got here? Is it just a sign of the times? No, it is due to the horrible choices we have made in the grocery store.

    Granted, genetic modification is its own demon, and it's hard to completely avoid them. Apart from that, we eat terribly mostly for the sake of what is convenient. That busy mother is just lucky to get food on the table. But if it's full of horrible stuff, isn't it defeating the purpose? I mean, won't those kids get sick and end up taking up more of her precious time? Kids who eat real food are typically healthy kids. The ones who eat processed crap all the time end up sicker, and more often.

One person in this thread went so far as to say, "Even if it's processed and 'poison', I'm still going to try it!" 

Look, I like cupcakes as much as the next guy, but this kind of reasoning is very destructive. I don't eat cupcakes every day. I don't even eat them every week, or every month. I understand the desire to just let loose to wild and free abandon and just eat what you want. But the above mentality is dangerous. It gives us the freedom to slowly kill ourselves with the food we eat!

And really, what a ridiculous reason to eat horrible food: "You only live once!" Shouldn't that be the reason for making better choices?

Gah! Folks, I have no solutions for this rant of mine. What do we do for folks who insist on living under this black veil of evil eating? They lash out when you try to politely show them the light! I realize I should just move on. I know that they don't care. But how do you GET them to care?

I am really trying to be diplomatic here. I don't want to make anyone upset. But how do you tell people that there are better options out there? How about it? Please comment below and tell me your ideas... 
I'm racking my brain!

<![CDATA[Be a survivor...]]>Sun, 02 Dec 2012 01:44:24 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/be-a-survivor]]><![CDATA[Hey, Mr. President! That Nectarine is GMO!]]>Fri, 26 Oct 2012 04:23:48 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/hey-mr-president-that-nectarine-is-gmoPicture
     (Disclaimer: This post is NOT politically motivated. It also does not claim any political affiliation; it merely explains a legal issue in current news. Please do not comment with political opinions.)

     Recently, someone posted a link on Facebook about the President taking a box of donuts to some Floridian firefighters. The remark made about the link to this article listed the ingredients of a typical store-bought donut and asked the question: Did he eat one? 

     If you are a regular around here, you know I feel strongly about eating clean, unprocessed foods. But I'm also human. How do I feel about whether or not the Commander in Chief ate a donut?

     Let me first explain the preoccupation with the President's diet: a few years ago, Mr. Obama promised full transparency when it comes to our knowing whether or not a food is genetically modified. That still hasn't happened. In fact, FDA officials - appointed by the current administration - have also been handed cushy and influential positions within the very companies in charge of genetic modification, for one: Monsanto. All of this is taking place while the Obama family supposedly only eats organic food.

     Now, the issue is on the ballot in California. "Label GMO's". The proposition is called Prop 37, and if you haven't heard about it or if you don't know what GMO's are, it's worth a Google. If the citizens of California vote this into effect, it has been speculated that it can change the entire way we shop for our food and could possibly lead to the fall of a great food industry Goliath (Monsanto). 

     Now what do I think about the President possibly eating a Krispy Kreme donut?

     I don't care what he eats. I try to eat as cleanly and organically as possible, and once in a great while, I cheat by eating my guilty pleasure - complete with MSG and red dye #40. Other times, I may eat the tortilla chips at the local Mexican restaurant, fully realizing that the corn they are made with is probably a GMO. 

     Thing is, we can all be hypocrites. It's human nature to fall back on what we know (or what we were previously addicted to). 

     Don't get me wrong. I feel very passionate about having GMOs labeled and knowing the truth about what is in our food. But if most of us were to be judged on this issue, I fear we would all be condemned. 
     Unfortunately, for most of us, our choices are limited. I live in a small town and am forced to take (or rather buy) what I can get at the local grocery store. And requesting a certain product is an exercise in futility because there are few people around here who appreciate unprocessed or organic food. So, against my personal convictions, I buy the organic orange that is still probably genetically modified, and I eat the organic potatoes that still probably had pesticides in their soil. 

     We live in a world full of greedy, selfish people. Until that changes, I will pick my battles.

<![CDATA[Are You A Food Snob?]]>Sat, 13 Oct 2012 14:14:56 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/are-you-a-food-snobPicture
   Okay let's do this.

   What do you think of when I say "Food Snob"?  Some uppity rich guy at a wine tasting, talking down his nose about cedar and notes of cherry and vanilla in this $400 bottle? Or a food blogger who visits area restaurants, taking photos of the food, doing reviews and nattering on like "the foie gras was mediocre and I cared very little for the watercress salad, but the lamb was perfectly seared and was packed with flavor." Either way, people like this usually spend a lot of money on their food, and they want you to know it, right? And, just as the negative connotation of the word "snob" goes, these people are viewed negatively because they give the air that they are better than you. Well, according to some, there's another kind of Food Snob out there.

     Frankly, I am sick and tired of people getting mad at each other for what they call food snobbery, and today I am setting the record straight. By the way, I am not paid by any organization to express my opinions today, nor is my yearly household income more than $100,000 (not even close), so I feel I am adequately qualified to bear some light on the matter. It may lose me a few Facebook fans, but the truth should finally come out.

     What Are People Saying?

     To start, I went to my Kitchen Psycho Facebook Fan Page and asked the fans, what do you think of when I say "Food Snob"? The answers were mixed. A majority (by an albeit small margin) felt the phrase was negative in nature and gave the impression of "I'm better than you because I eat cooler stuff". The minority, I suppose because they are aware of my clean eating mission, said they were proud to be food snobs, since, as April Norman put it, "As a self proclaimed food snob and parent, I buy the best I can afford, and prepare it in the healthiest, most creative ways. For me it is not a bad thing." 

     Good for you, April! But, in my humble opinion, that's just responsible parenting. 

     Next, I interviewed four fellow food bloggers for their opinion on the matter. I asked two questions: how do you feel about the title "food snob", and do you think that chefs, cooks, caterers or food bloggers are responsible for what they present or promote to the public?

     Mia from Mia's Domain feels that a food snob is "someone who offensively acts superior in their food knowledge or food tastes." But she also feels that being more knowledgeable about food does not make one a food snob and that knowledge can be measured subjectively.

     Jay from Foodies Are Us says food snobs "are attached to chefs, places and an perceived 'social status' about eating at restaurants. They are the people who only frequent expensive restaurants because they are just that, expensive. They attach food experiences to who they met, how much they spent and who was wearing what." Being a foodie, on the other hand, is someone for whom food is the center of the social activity.
      Ann from Sumptuous Spoonfuls says, "I call myself a chocolate snob because I will not settle for poor quality/mass market chocolate, but does that make me a food snob? I don't know. I think quality IS important and if you get the best ingredients, you will have the best food."
     And Melissa from ChinDeep says food snobbery is "not necessarily negative. People who care about what they eat, and people who want to only cook with quality ingredients may be considered food snobs in some circles. Then there are those who only cook with expensive ingredients and brand name products and talk about it incessantly... "I purchased such and such at Williams Sonoma..." I think this is where food snobbery really gets a bad name. Don't get me wrong, I love Williams Sonoma. I just don't think we have to always buy designer condiments and embellishments to end up with a beautiful dish in the end.

     I agree, to some extent, with all of these folks. But do these things make me a food snob?


     A snob is a snob is a SNOB. Merriam Webster defines a snob as "one who has an offensive air of superiority in matters of knowledge or taste." If you look down on someone for their choices, you are a snob.

     But is it really that simple? Actually, yes. But let's make sure we all understand what this entails.

     I recently saw the Facebook post of a fellow food blogger expressing her frustration with a fan who commented on her use of processed food. Apparently, the fan was disappointed that this blogger had chosen not to use her own ingredients, and rather, used a product with preservatives and chemicals. The blogger was irate, to say the least, and in her post, lambasted the fan by remarking that she has the prerogative to do whatever she wants with her own food and her own blog. Then she called this fan a food snob. (This is how I was inspired to write this post.)

     Look, I totally support this blogger's right to do what she wants. It's her blog and her food and her business. Her blog doesn't contain any mission statement about "clean eating" or "no processed food eating." And like Jay from Foodies Like Us says, "We are all grown-ups with the ability to control what goes in our mouths." Ann from Sumptuous Spoonfuls adds, "If there is something that people don't like, they can simply not visit/follow that blog." That said, it is my humble opinion that the before-mentioned blogger was dead wrong on the food snob comment. 

     Now, anyone who has been following Kitchen Psycho for any length of time knows that I am crazy conscious about clean eating and cutting out processed foods. (Oh, and FYI: the fan who made the comments to that blogger was not me, I swear!) Because I KNOW BETTER, I feel a responsibility to tell others what I know. Put it this way: If I passed someone drowning in a pool and there was a life-saving device nearby, I would be negligent - and possibly bloodguilty - if I did not offer help to that person. This is the obligation I feel toward my readers when I find information that proves our food supply is compromised. I feel that in this role, I am educating my fans, not pushing my superiority on them. And I would also feel like a colossal hypocrite for preaching these things and then not doing my best to show the public that I'm living by them.

     I'm Not The Only One...
   People these days are waking up. They are SCREAMING for guidance in a world where doctors and other authorities lie, deny, or pass the buck. Everyone is scrambling for a shred of truth and when they see what looks like good food, they want it to be real. Anything else is highly frustrating. We want our health back!

     That blogger was within her rights to be irritated. But her "fan" was not a snob. She was an AWESOME FOOD ADVOCATE. (Thanks, Pastry Chef Online! I was already thinking about using "advocate"!) An advocate is a person that defends a cause. And when we shell out the big bucks - because that's what it is nowadays - we are advocating the food we buy. Whether it's Twinkies and Pepsi or hummus and green tea, we are promoting either corporations or ourselves.

     Food blogger Mia from Mia's Domain says, "As a food blogger I feel that we have been given a global stage, we have a responsibility to our followers by posting a well balanced array of recipes and treats. At the end of the day, people should also be responsible for their own actions and nutritional habits." And Melissa from ChinDeep feels an obligation "to help people create healthy, wonderful, delicious dishes no matter their budget."

      Am I A Food Snob?

     I hope not. I don't ever want to come across that way. But I will do my best to educate my fans about clean eating and clean living. Don't you all deserve that? Let's get healthy, people! And share the wealth of knowledge we can all learn from each other. And be an AWESOME FOOD ADVOCATE!

(Thanks to all contributors to this post. You were not paid for your opinions, and your time was much appreciated! For everyone else, if you would like to check out the blogs mentioned, the links are listed below.)
www.chindeep.com                        www.miasdomain.com
http://sumptuousspoonfuls.com        www.foodieslikeus.com

<![CDATA[QUIT EATING PROCESSED YOGURT!]]>Fri, 20 Jul 2012 17:26:31 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/quit-eating-processed-yogurtPicture
So you've chosen to start eating healthier. You're eating more vegetables, you're cutting out excessive carbohydrates and sugar, you're even eating more yogurt, because the commercials say it's good for you and keeps you regular. 

Congratulations! You're doing ALMOST everything right. 

First of all, let's address the commercial claims, primarily the one made by Activia yogurts: The Activia commercials say that eating their yogurt will help you stay regular. Did you know that they recently were ordered to pay a 21 MILLION-dollar fine for saying that? See what Bruce Horovitz of USA Today reported:

"Yogurt is a $4.2 billion-plus business in the USA, with sales up 8% over the past year, says researcher SymphonyIRI Group. The two Dannon products cited by the FTC both contain beneficial bacteria known as probiotics. But, Nestle says, "Yogurt is just food. It's not a miracle. No food is a superfood."

The government says Dannon will stop claiming that one daily serving of Activia yogurt relieves irregularity and that DanActive helps people avoid catching colds.

"These types of misleading claims are enough to give consumers indigestion," FTC Chairman Jon Leibowitz says. 'Companies like Dannon shouldn't exaggerate the strength of scientific support.' "

Granted, their claim is made in good faith, because it IS true that probiotics will improve the health of your intestines, thereby improving digestion. But the other ingredients contained in their Strawberry Light yogurt, for example, are highly disturbing:

Cultured Grade A Non Fat Milk, Strawberries, Water, Modified Food Starch Fructose, Inulin, Contains Less than 1% of Acacia Gum, Modified Corn Starch, Natural Flavor, Kosher Gelatin, Carmine (for Color), Carrageenan, Sodium Citrate, Aspartame, Xanthan Gum, Malic Acid, Acesulfame Potassium, Sucralose.  

Let's take the first one: 

Modified Corn Starch: 

   What is it? Jeanne Sager at The Stir informs us: "Modified corn starch is a food additive which is created by treating starch, causing the starch to be partially degraded. Modified corn starch can be used as a stabilizer, thickening agent, or an emulsifier. 
   There does not appear to be any research indicating that modified corn starch is dangerous to our health. However, processed foods, which may be high in sodium, fat, or sugar, often contain modified starches. Consuming too much processed food may be detrimental to health (due to increased intake of sodium, empty calories from sugar, saturated fat, etc). 
   A food that is natural (from nature- like whole fruits and vegetables) won't have any additives. So these of course are always are BEST choice. However, if you look at even more natural yogurts, like a Greek yogurt, you will notice less additives (no modified starch, no HFCS, etc) making it an even more natural, healthier choice."


   Bottom line on Modified Corn Starch: it's not necessary, and while it's not technically unhealthy, it's an inferior ingredient.

Aspartame and Sucralose (better known as Splenda):

   What are they? They are man-made sugar substitutes, chemical in nature, and they are, in a nutshell, the reason most people are sick today. 

   Side effects of aspartame intake include a variety of cancers, brain disorders, DNA damage, and emotional, mental and neuro-developmental disorders, as well as ADD, migraines and liver damage.

   Is all of that really worth cutting calories?

   Sucralose is another chemical demon, claiming to be derived from sugar. Yeah, sure it is. Its chemical makeup is this: 

   "Sucralose/Splenda is produced through artificially substituting three hydroxyl groups (hydrogen + oxygen) with three chlorine atoms in the sugar (sucrose) molecule. Natural sugar is a hydrocarbon built around 12 carbon atoms. When transformed into Splenda it becomes a chlorocarbon, in the same family as deadly pesticides like DDT, insecticides, biocides, disinfectants like Chlorox Bleach, and WWI poison gas like dichlorourea." - (http://www.greenmedinfo.com/blog/bitter-truth-about-splenda

   Are you worried yet? Do you want to hear the adverse reactions?

   Here's a list: enlarged liver and kidneys, bowel inflammation, migraines, abnormal changes in spleen and thymus gland, DNA damage, colitis, Chron's Disease, and adverse changes in gastrointestinal bacteria. 

   Adverse changes in gastrointestinal bacteria. What is a product like Splenda doing in a product like Activia yogurt, which claims to IMPROVE gut health????

Now look at the photo to the right. This is a photo of the back of a container of Yoplait's Light Cherry-flavored Yogurt. The ingredients that should pop out at you are HIGH FRUCTOSE CORN SYRUP, ASPARTAME, RED #40, and BLUE #1. 

We have all been informed, or should have been by now, of the evil of high fructose corn syrup. (If you would like some medical studies on the results of the intake of HFCS, google the words "greenmedinfo" and "high fructose corn syrup".) But what is it doing in a LIGHT yogurt? And again with the aspartame...

Lastly, you have the food dyes. Red food dye, in particular, is a well documented contributor to ADD and ADHD symptoms. It's no wonder that most foods advertised to children contain food dye! And most of these kids are on ADHD medication! Why don't we try taking food dye out of their diets and see what happens??

The point here is READ YOUR LABELS. Just because it says "light" on the label, doesn't mean it's good for you. In this case, the best option is a plain organic yogurt with your own fresh fruit added. Add a little honey if you like. I enjoy Stonyfield Farms' line of yogurts, but find what is available to you locally and EAT SMART. You may just get healthy yet!

<![CDATA[A Little Healthy Reading...]]>Fri, 18 May 2012 01:12:19 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/may-17th-2012
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<![CDATA[WHAT IS CANDIDA?]]>Mon, 07 May 2012 16:23:38 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/what-is-candida
     For years I have known that I suffer from a Candida infection. I have been overweight and lethargic, and I often have a "foggy brain", easily forgetting things. For about 6 weeks now, I have been on a diet trying to "starve" this yeast overgrowth, and many of you have asked what, exactly, this condidtion is and how a person contracts it. Here is the low down:

     According to www.naturopathconnect.com, Candida, or Candidiasis, is caused by candida overgrowth. In its benign form and in smaller quantities, Candida is inside all of us – in the digestive tract, mouth, and throat – isn’t a health problem.  But candida can become too prevalent within the gut and change into its more virulent, fungal form.  This fungal form of candida produces rhizoids – barbed appendages that cut into tissue and can cause candida to spore through the intestinal wall.

     Once Candida has turned virulent and has made it’s way through the intestinal wall, it produces a multitude of problems and symptoms. One of the most prevalent is Leaky Gut Syndrome. Meaning that the irritation and sporing caused by candida, has made the intestinal wall too permeable, so that it actually leaks undigested food and toxins into the bloodstream. (Candida does not always result in this condition, as in my case. Mine, on the other hand, is now in my bloodstream and is known as Systemic Candidiasis)

     While Candidiasis can be caused by a number of factors, and is typically the result of more than one cause, the recurrent use, or overuse, of antibiotics is often at least a contributing factor.  Antibiotics kill off many of the good intestinal flora that restrain candida growth. Allowed to grow unchecked, candida can then morph into its fungal form and cause the problems and symptoms associated with Candidiasis.

     You should also know that while candida overgrowth is not difficult to confirm through lab testing, an actual medical diagnosis of Candida can be difficult to obtain, as mainstream medicine has not widely or fully recognized candida overgrowth as a health concern. Common symptoms include:
  • Severe itching sensation of the skin
  • Dry mouth and tongue, cracked tongue, bleeding gums
  • Recurrent urinary tract infections (UTIs)
  • Painful and frequent urination
  • Vaginal burning, itching, or painful intercourse
  • Vaginal discharge with a white, cheesy appearance
  • Unusual menstrual cramping
  • Difficulty swallowing
  • Indigestion or heartburn
  • Abdominal pain, bloating, or gas
  • Constipation, diarrhea, or mucus in the stool
  • Depression, anxiety, sudden mood swings, lack of concentration, headaches, drowsiness, or fatigue
  • Muscle and/or joint pain and swelling
  • White patches in the mouth and fissures at the corners of the mouth (i.e. thrush)
  • Skin irritation in the folds of the skin, such as in the groin area or under the breasts; white pustules may be present
  • Ulcers
  • Fever
  • Retinal abscess (As a defensive cellular reaction to a Candida yeast infection within the eye’s retina, pus collects inside an inflamed tissue pocket, which may permanently damage vision.)
     Personally, I do not experience symptoms such as ulcers, fever, vaginal infections, or UTI's, but each person can have different evidences of the condition.

So how do you get Candida?

Candida can be caused by:
  • Use of antibiotics - Even if you have used antibiotics ONCE for the regular duration prescribed (usually about ten days), you can develop Candida
  • Steroids
  • Birth control pills
  • Heavy metal toxicity
  • Hormone Replacement Therapy
  • Exposure to pesticides - Yikes! Here's where it's necessary to watch which things you eat. Apples are particularly high in pesticides unless you buy organic.
  • A weakened immune system, such as in the case of AIDS
  • Type 2 diabetes (and other sugar-related conditions. I also have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, which is essentially insulin resistance. The pancreas, when overloaded with sugar in the body, releases so much insulin that the body doesn't use it all. Because of this, the ovaries refuse to release eggs as usual. Many women are troubled by this, as it can be difficult to conceive a child. It also causes embarrassing symptoms like facial hair growth.)
  • Chemotherapy and radiation treatments
  • A poor, unbalanced diet

     So what do you do? The first and biggest suggestion is to formulate a diet that will starve the Candida. This can be difficult for some people, since it means NO sugar, No alcohol, no wheat or corn products, no fungi. 
     Why no sugar? Sugar FEEDS the yeast. And anything that turns into sugar (carbs, alcohol) feeds yeast. Why no wheat or corn? Now we get into mycotoxins. Myco, meaning "fungal", and toxin, meaning "bad for you"! Grains like wheat and corn are huge crops here in the US. And they tend to sit a while before being processed and distributed. That means they have the tendency to develop mold (mycotoxins) before it even reaches the factory. Any fungus, which is what mold is, should not be ingested while a person is trying to recover from Candida. 

     The second suggestion is to take the BEST probiotic supplement you can afford. I found one by Solaray called Multidophilus 12 which supplies the body with 12 strains of 20 Billion living probiotic organisms. The capsules are also "enteric coated to help allow for passage through harsh stomach acids and into the small intestine." Try to make sure that is the case with your supplement. You don't want the organisms to die in your stomach... You can also take foods high in probiotics like: yogurt, kefir, and fermented foods like kimchi and saurkraut. 

     I am interested in trying a new treatment, though, called ThreeLac. They offer a 60-day Money Back Guarantee and have tons of testimonials on their site... I may try it out. Here is the link if you're curious: http://www.candidasupport.org/treatment_faq.html 

     And here are some additional dietary guidelines: http://naturopathconnect.com/articles/candida-dietary/ 

     Do you suffer with Candida? Do you have any more questions for me? I'd love to hear about it! Please leave a comment below.

]]><![CDATA[The Sadness of an Estate Sale... Or A Pop-Over Pan's History]]>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 14:58:29 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/the-sadness-of-an-estate-sale-or-a-pop-over-pans-history
     I was so proud of my discoveries! Some clean, freshly pressed handkerchiefs (no one uses them anymore), a couple kitchen linens, and a pop-over baking pan! 

     But as I walked through room after room of this once-occupied house, I grew sadder and sadder. It wasn't a house. It was someone's home. People lived here. A family history was made here. I was made ever more aware of that when a man came up to me as I was paying for my finds and said, "You better do that pop-over pan justice. Everything my mother made in that pan came out perfect!"

     I assured him of my affinity for cooking and told him about www.kitchenpsycho.com. After exchanging a few more words, I took my leave and arrived home, excited to invent some tasty new oven-baked delight. 

     Now, a day later, pictures of that home flash up in my mind. The flawless eight-piece set of white wicker bedroom furniture. The glass case in the dining room that contained twenty different flowered teacup and saucer sets. The shelf in the hall closet, piled high with spools of assorted ribbons. The kitchen cabinet containing a set of dishes, obviously thirty years old, but in pristine condition. The off-brand mixer, with all the attachments, whose housing had yellowed with age.

     All of these things had a good life in the hands of someone now dead. And there I was going through them. I almost felt like an intruder. As I spoke to this family's 40-something year-old son, he informed me that his father had died and they had moved his mother into a nursing home closer to his home in Dallas. 

     Oh, the sadness of growing older and being faced with your own mortality! "Old age is the most unexpected of things that can happen to a man," said Leon Trotsky. 

     I will be 37 when November arrives this year, and I am more surprised than anyone about it. Thirty-seven is by no means old, but how did I get here? I still feel as if I should be 23 or 24, still acting like a know-it-all about a few things and yet still trying to figure out... well, life. Still grappling with disappointments and insecurities. Still wondering what challenges - and blessings - the coming years will bring....

     I have always been the kind of person who appre-ciates the small, simple things. I am grateful for that. And I am determined to remain that way. And now that my pop-over pan has a history, it waits for its first use in a new abode. It shall get a lot of use as the newest adoptee in my home!
<![CDATA[A Routine Doctor's Visit Sorely Disappoints]]>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 23:06:44 GMThttp://www.kitchenpsycho.com/meditations/a-routine-doctors-visit-sorely-disappoints
     "I'm a scientist," he said. It took all the self-control I possessed not to roll my eyes and respond in sarcasm.

     There stood my step-daughter in the pediatrician's office, bouncing 10 week-old baby Noah in her arms. She had asked me to accompany her this time because we wanted to change his formula. Yes, formula. 10 weeks old and he's eating formula already.

     Noah was born about 8 weeks early, they say. He lived in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at a children's hospital in Dallas for about five weeks. When he was about 10 days old, he developed NEC (Necrotizing Enterocolitis) and after antibiotics and rounds of x-rays, it cleared up. Since then, the doctors encouraged formula, saying he couldn't handle breastmilk (which is the biggest load of hooey I've ever heard, but this post isn't about that). Not knowing she could fight for the right to breastfeed, my step-daughter relented.

     The formula Noah has been eating is apparently the cream of the crop, the "Cadillac" of formulas. Even the nurses in the hospital hadn't heard of it when the doctor prescribed it. "Elecare" claims to be the pre-digested (by what, I don't care to know) formula that is the most easily assimilated by babies. 

     But all of that doesn't matter. Noah has been a screaming fit ever since he came home from the hospital, despite gaining almost five pounds since then. He has had acid reflux, vomiting, bowel blockage... all that from the most easily digestible formula on the market. My step-daughter, at times, has been close to tearing her hair out in frustration and is now certain this will be her one and only child. 

     Meanwhile, she was running out of formula and I had been doing some reading. There is only one formula on the market that does not contain a key ingredient. A key bad ingredient: a synthetically made DHA supplement. DHA is an omega-3 essential fatty acid and is a main structural component of the brain and eyes. DHA occurs naturally in breastmilk and is said to be important for healthy visual and mental development throughout infancy.
     Unfortunately, man-made vitamins, minerals and fatty acids are sub-standard and can cause serious side effects. This one, synthetic DHA, can lead to: 
  • Severe gas 
  • Diarrhea and/or vomiting  
  • Gastric reflux 
  • Constipation and bowel obstruction 
  • Agitation, fussiness, crying and severe distress
    Little Noah was experiencing all symptoms. Two weeks ago, the doctor gave him an acid reflux medication to help with the reflux. "Really? You're going to treat one symptom? Just like a doctor to shove a drug in your face as he ushers you out the door," I thought. 

     Here we are two weeks later, and his condition has improved only slightly. The doctor admitted it might be a good idea to switch formulas and suggested one made by Similac. That's when my step-daughter presented him with the information about this synthetic DHA supplement and asked for the ONE formula on the market that is made without it: Baby's Only Organic Formula by Nature's One. Both WIC and Medicaid cover it. Now let's just see if he'll let her use it...
     First, he objected to the formula's being organic by saying, "Even poison ivy is organic." Yes sir, you're right. But I'm sure that it does its job without any added ingredients, either.

     Next, he protested the doctor who wrote the information. "Is he a pediatrician? Has he done the research? I'm a scientist. I do this all the time." Scientist, sir? I beg to differ. Scientists spend long days in a lab, testing hypotheses, gathering statistics, and writing reports. You, sir, are a busy pediatrician who talked to us for a total of 10 minutes. And your day will be spent doing the same for 50 other patients and their parents. I doubt you have the time to be a scientist as well. (No, I did not say all of this, because we would have left without getting what we wanted)

     At this point, I pulled the can of formula out of Noah's diaper bag and said, "Well, we ran out for formula yesterday, and I went ahead and got some. He's been on it ever since and has only spit up twice since then. We would really like to see what only two weeks will do for him."

     This seemed to soften him a little. BAM. Gotcha. We can do something without your consent. What're you gonna do about it? After my humoring him through another bout of "I know what I'm doing" talk, he finally gave in. And, in the off-chance of WIC not accepting this formula, he gave us a back-up prescription of the other formula he had suggested at the outset.

     Hey, docs: why is it so hard to imagine that a parent would know his child better than you? Why is it so hard to imagine that we could be educated about treatments and side effects? Why is it so easy to ignore the root cause and only treat a symptom? 

     Recently, I took one of our dogs to the veterinarian to get neutered. He tore out stitches a couple times and ended up having to stay several days because, in the vet's words, she "didn't want to see him again." She wanted him to heal. 

     Maybe next time I get sick, I should go to a vet.
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